When should Christians judge? “Never!” Some say that Christians must never judge. However, Christ commands judging. “Where? And if so, how could that be?”
Christians are to be followers of Christ and not the followers of culture’s “tolerance.” Christ commands His followers to gently restore those who go astray and often believers who attempt to do this are met with the words, “You can’t judge me!” Is this not a double standard to judge those who are judging? However, many people are right to confront those who judge them unjustly with prejudice.
The Biblical Meaning of Judging
What does it mean to judge someone? The Greek word for judging in the New Testament is krino. This word simply means to determine and discern something. Yes, this is the word that Jesus used when He spoke of judging. Judging is an unavoidable part of life. All of our choices consist of judging. In the New Testament, the apostle Paul spoke of judging where to stay for the winter (Titus 3:12) and Luke mentions the judging done to determine how and where to travel (Acts 20:16; 27:1). Certainly, this kind of judging is fine. What about judging others? There are number of ways to judge others. One can judge another by appearance, by behavior, and judge another unto condemnation. Is this the judging that Jesus judged to be wrong?
Judging Those Who Judge
Many assume that Jesus condemned all judging and yet He actually commanded judging in John 7:24. There is a wrong form of judging for which Christians must avoid. Strangely, many people will condemn judging by judging others. Jesus gave instruction as how not to judge by one’s own standard. Christ warned against this, “Judge not, and you shall not be judged. Condemn not, and you shall not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven” (Luke 6:37). This does not mean that if you do not judge others about a certain evil, then you will not be judged by God for doing that evil. Jesus is speaking of judging according to a person or society’s standard outside of what God says. Earlier in His ministry, Christ taught in Matthew 7:1-2, “Judge not, that you be not judged. For with what judgment you judge, you will be judged; and with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you.” The measure of your judgment is judged back on you. Yes, Christians are to judge but not according to their own standard. Jesus declared in John 7:24, “[J]udge with righteous judgment.”
Besides judging by one’s own opinions, Jesus also spoke against hypocritical judging, which often comes from judging by one’s own opinions. Jesus revealed in Matthew 7:3–5,
And why do you look at the speck in your brother’s eye, but do not consider the plank in your own eye? Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from your eye’; and look, a plank is in your own eye? Hypocrite! First remove the plank from your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.
Jesus does not condemn removing the speck from your brother’s eye. He even commands removing the speck when one does not have log in one’s own eye. Christ’s Spirit spoke through Paul addressing hypocritical judging. Romans 2:1–3 says,
Therefore you are inexcusable, O man, whoever you are who judge, for in whatever you judge another you condemn yourself; for you who judge practice the same things. But we know that the judgment of God is according to truth against those who practice such things. And do you think this, O man, you who judge those practicing such things, and doing the same, that you will escape the judgment of God?
In the end, God is the Judge. In Romans 2, Paul judges by God’s judgment. This is judging that we can do knowing that those who practice evil things will not escape God’s judgment.
Judging Consciences by Opinions
Those who struggle with certain sins will make no provision for those who sins (Rom 13:13–14). However, crossing those lines into temptation is different for everyone and Christians must respect these positions. Paul commanded, “As for the one who is weak in faith, welcome him, but not to quarrel over opinions” (Rom 14:1).
Paul spoke of those who judged others based on their own personal opinions even to judge whether one stood or fell before God based not on the Scriptures but on their opinions. Paul affirmed in Romans 14:4, “Who are you to judge another’s servant? To his own master he stands or falls. Indeed, he will be made to stand, for God is able to make him stand.” Whether one stands or fall is God’s judgment, and yet “we know that the judgment of God is according to truth against those who practice such things” (Rom 2:2). Romans 14:10 says, “But why do you judge your brother? Or why do you show contempt for your brother? For we shall all stand before the judgment seat of Christ.” Let God judge concerning eternity.
Why judge if no one can judge? “Happy is he who does not condemn [judge] himself in what he approves” (Rom 14:22). Paul concludes in Romans 14:13, “Therefore let us not judge one another anymore, but rather resolve this, not to put a stumbling block or a cause to fall in our brother’s way.” Therefore, judging by appearance, judging by opinions, and judging unto condemnation is wrong.
When to Judge
Many do not even know when they have judged someone else. When you speak against another person, then you are judging them (Jas 4:11–12). Any detest or contempt of another culture, ethnicity, appearance, financial standing, food, drink, festival, or Sabbath (Col 2:16). This is not God’s judgment.
Therefore judge nothing before the time, until the Lord comes, who will both bring to light the hidden things of darkness and reveal the counsels of the hearts. Then each one’s praise will come from God. (1 Cor 4:5)
Now, when should Christians judge one another? Can we judge the person who is putting one’s soul at risk. That is exactly what Paul did in Romans 2:2 when he judged those who judge hypocritically. Now, we cannot determine someone’s eternal destination on our own, but we can know whether someone continues to sin and thus that person endangers one’s soul.
Righteous Behavior Judges
Christians judge one another by what is right and wrong and how each lives. The righteousness of others offends the consciences of many people while evil offends the consciences of others. The actions of the faithful judge the actions of others. Hebrews 11:7 says that Noah’s behavior judged the world. This judging is unavoidable, because righteous living is offensive. Studying the Bible judges those who do not study, and those who do not study the Bible judge that those studying are doing something that really does not matter and is not worth their time. Furthermore, Paul and Barnabas declared that many judge themselves unworthy of salvation because they reject salvation (Acts 13:46).
Christians Judge One Another
Christians must judge one another. How else could they fulfill the commands to restore those who fall away? The Apostle Paul said in Galatians 6:1, “Brethren, if a man is overtaken in any trespass, you who are spiritual restore such a one in a spirit of gentleness, considering yourself lest you also be tempted.” James 5:19–20 declares,
Brethren, if anyone among you wanders from the truth, and someone turns him back, let him know that he who turns a sinner from the error of his way will save a soul from death and cover a multitude of sins.
How can anyone do this without judging? How can anyone go to restore without first determining that someone is practicing a sin? They cannot. Christians must judge and do so righteously. Why would this matter that Christians restore someone unless they have judged that their soul is at risk? They must judge.
Judging Christians but Not Unbelievers
On one such occasion, the apostle Paul said in 1 Corinthians 5:3 that he had “already judged” a man who was openly practicing sin. Paul’s judgment was no sin, because Paul spoke the commands of God to withdraw from Christians who sin (1 Cor 14:37). The apostle Paul taught that the congregation to not associate with such a person.
Paul instructed in 1 Corinthians 5:11–13,
But now I have written to you not to keep company with anyone named a brother, who is sexually immoral, or covetous, or an idolater, or a reviler, or a drunkard, or an extortioner — not even to eat with such a person. For what have I to do with judging those also who are outside? Do you not judge those who are inside? But those who are outside God judges. Therefore “put away from yourselves the evil person.”
Christians must not judge those on the outside of the church. There is no need to judge the abortionist or the homosexual, but rather Christians seek to bring them to the Truth.
How could Paul give this instruction without judging Christians? He could not and yet he did not sin. Add to this that Paul spoke further to the congregation about not taking each other to judgment before unbelievers, but that they should have their own wise men judge on their own matters (1 Cor 6:1–6). Here again, judgment is taught and approved. Why all of this judging? Christians can know that someone’s soul is at risk and that is not the kind of judging that is condemned.
Judging False Teachers
Listen again to Jesus. Jesus proclaimed in John 7:24, “Do not judge according to appearance, but judge with righteous judgment.” In this instance, others were judging Jesus by their standards, and yet He did not respond with “You cannot judge me” rather He corrected their standard to be according to righteousness. Jesus commanded His followers to beware of false prophets, and in so doing, He instructed them saying, “Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly they are ravenous wolves. You will know them by their fruits” (Matt 7:15–16a). Even more, Paul instructed those who listened to him to judge what they were taught (1 Cor 10:15; 11:13, 31; 14:29).
Clearly, we can judge righteously and must judge other Christians. Let us judge the behavior of fellow Christians. Let us encourage one another and restore those who fall away in gentleness and humility. Let us not judge with hypocrisy, by appearance, or unto condemnation. Let us not judge those who are outside the church. However, realize that we can judge that someone is practicing a sin and that a person is therefore putting one’s soul at risk. In the end, Jesus professed that those who reject His words will be judged by His words (John 12:47–48). Therefore, let us judge ourselves, so that we may not return to condemnation (1 Cor 11:28–34; 2 Cor 13:5).
I am not sure my husband is born again he received Christ 35 years ago but has not grown much he doesn’t love other people and he is very critical of others he seems to have no relationship with Jesus I don’t see him letting the Holy Spirit work in his life I am praying for the right words or none at all he says I have no right to judge him I only want him to walk with Jesus but am I dealing with an unsaved person that’s a whole different thing I would not judge him just pray and ask for the right thing to say and when very concerened
I can see why you might doubt his salvation. This sounds like his fellowship is lacking with Christ. You may not be able to help him considering Hebrews 6:4–6 (cf. Heb 3:12–14; 2 Pet 2:20–22).
However, you need to expose the hypocrisy of his behavior. Jesus had to do this with others. When your husband says you have no right to judge, you need to respond that he has no right for judging you because you are judging with righteous judgement. He is judging when he is critical of others. He needs to see that his view of the world is distorted and that he is judging himself unworthy. In this way, he may be able to see that only Jesus can help him get his heart right.
Hello! I do not know how or when I should judge a person’s behavior. If I cannot judge a person, how should I choose my friends? If I see someone rob a bank, shouldn’t I be able to judge his behavior as bad? It is a person’s BEHAVIOR I’m stuck on, don’t know what to think. Hope you can help me!
Larry, You can and must judge that action is right or wrong without condemning anyone. Furthermore, Jesus taught that we can judge by righteous judgement (John 7:24). Jesus teaching not to judge is a warning about the measure of judgement (Matt 7:1–2). See the article above.